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In this article, Sushant Pandey of Vivekananda Institute of Professional Studies, Delhi, discusses the legal action to take when your spouse is cheating on you.


Commitment is the soul of a matrimonial bond. In a diversity of religions, marriage has always been given a pious position. To dishonour the relationship of a marriage, by being involved in an affair outside the marriage would not only be religiously wrong but morally as well. However, our concern in this article is limited to the legal remedies available to a spouse, if his or her wife or husband is cheating on the spouse. In such a situation, preparation and collection of evidence before you take any step is very important, as the burden of proof will fall upon you. Moreover, if you fail to prove your case, you may find yourself in more trouble than you already were.

Collecting Evidence – What qualifies as a valid evidence under law

Evidence that can be used by you are:

  • Birth of an illegitimate child.
  • Contraction of a venereal disease by the unfaithful spouse.
  • Witnesses, photographs and videos (solely for the purpose of evidence, without violating any law of the land at the time being) of the commission of the cheating on spouse.
  • Evidence of visit(s) to a brothel.
  • Confession of the spouse of committing adultery.
  • WhatsApp messages or email exchanges that come to your knowledge or possession.
  • Paternity test report of a child, etc.

Since it is very hard to obtain direct evidence in a case pertaining to a cheating on a spouse, circumstantial evidence is sufficient. However, such evidence should be such, that if regarded together, leads to an irresistible conclusion of the commission of adultery. Intention to commit adultery is an essential element. Being a victim of rape or pre-marital sex cannot be held to be an adulterous act.

The Indian Penal Code, 1860

To understand the legal position of India with respect to the extra-marital affairs, it is important to understand the position of the Indian Penal Code, 1860 (IPC).

The IPC in the Section 497 states:

Whoever has sexual intercourse with a person who is and whom he knows or has reason to believe to be the wife of another man, without the consent or connivance of that man, such sexual intercourse not amounting to the offence of rape, is guilty of the offence of adultery, and shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to five years, or with fine, or with both. In such case, the wife shall not be punishable as an abettor.

Therefore, in case, your wife is cheating on you, you can make no step against her under this section, or so far as that is concerned in any section of the IPC. Hence the law says that only a man can be punished for the offence of adultery.

Then what remedy are you entitled to? As evident from the aforementioned section, the only person who has a criminal liability in an act of adultery is the man who has had sexual intercourse with your wife, if he did so with the knowledge of her being married or had reason to believe that she is married.

If you are the wife, and it is your husband who is involved in a cheating, you too have no provision in this code to hold your husband criminally liable for his disloyalty. Unlike in the above scenario, where at least the outsider had a criminal liability, in your case, not even the woman with whom your husband establishes a sexual relationship outside the marriage can be prosecuted under this code.
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The Hon’ble Supreme Court has opined this as a favourable discrimination towards women, as the law doesn’t envisage punishment for any of the spouses involved but additionally, not even for a woman outsider. Only an outsider man to the marriage is to be punished under Indian adultery law. It is for this favourable discrimination, the section has defeated the challenges questioning its constitutional validity (valid vide Article 15(3) of the Indian Constitution) in the apex court.

We can conclude from the above discussion, that in the eyes of the adultery law as it stands in India, a man is always the seducer and a woman always the victim.

Regarding why neither of the spouses can be dragged to a criminal court for having a cheating on the spouse, the supreme court has explained the philosophy behind it:

“The philosophy underlying the scheme of these provisions appears to be that as between the husband and the wife social good will be promoted by permitting them to ‘make up’ or ‘break up’ the matrimonial tie rather than to drag each other to the criminal court. They can either condone the offence in a spirit of ‘forgive and forget’ and live together or separate by approaching a matrimonial court and snapping the matrimonial tie by securing a divorce. They are not enabled to send each other to jail. Perhaps it is as well that the children (if any) are saved from the trauma of one of their parents being jailed at the instance of the other parent.”

Therefore, you can either fix your relationship with your spouse if he or she has been involved in a cheating, or you may opt for the remedies provided by the personal law under which your marriage has been solemnized.

Spouse cheating on you – How personal family law deals with such situation

The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 and the Special Marriage Act, 1954

  • Divorce

The Hindu Marriage Act (HMA) under Section 13(1)(i) and the Special Marriage Act (SMA) under section 27(1)(a) have mentioned in a very precise manner, that any marriage may be dissolved by a decree of divorce on filing of a petition by you on the ground that your husband or wife has, after the solemnization of the marriage had voluntary sexual intercourse with any person other than you.

  • Judicial Separation

If you don’t want a divorce, you can file a petition in the court to obtain a decree of judicial separation on the ground of adultery committed by your husband or wife. After obtaining the decree, you will no longer be required to cohabit with your spouse. This will give you time to think over the situation and decide whether or not you want a divorce. If you fail to cohabit with your spouse within a period of one year, you or your spouse can file a petition for dissolution of the marriage.

  • A Ground of Opposition of Relief Sought

Any relief sought for by your husband or wife (petitioner) in a proceeding of divorce or judicial separation may be opposed by you (respondent) on the ground of adultery committed by him or her. In fact, you may counterclaim for any relief under the Act (HMA or SMA, as applicable) on such ground; and if his or her adultery is proved, the court may give you any relief under the Act to which you would have been entitled if you had presented a petition seeking such relief.

It should be noted that

  • Anything short of a sexual intercourse cannot be used as a ground for divorce or judicial separation.
  • Unlike the stand of the law in past, where adultery had to be proved beyond reasonable doubt, the Supreme Court has opined in the case of Dastane vs. Dastane, that proving beyond the reasonable doubt is applicable in criminal cases only, not in civil cases, especially not in those relating to matrimony.
  • Always implead the adulterer as a co-respondent in the suit against your spouse. Failing to do so may become a ground for rejection of your suit. Different courts have been of the different opinion regarding this. However, it is always better to be on the safer side.
  • If you condone the acts of your adulterous spouse, and after that, he or she doesn’t commit any act of adultery, you lose your ground for divorce or judicial separation.

Muslim Personal Laws

  • Husband

A Muslim husband can divorce his wife at his will, without providing any reason for such divorce. It can be executed by triple talaq, i.e. uttering three times, in clear and unequivocal words, ‘I divorce you’ or any other phrase having a similar meaning. The method of triple talaq differs, depending upon the sect of the husband (Shia or Sunni). Therefore, you can divorce your wife if she is involved in a cheating on spouse by exercising triple talaq.

  • Wife

If your husband has delegated to you the power to divorce, you may use such power to divorce him. This is known as talaq-i-tafweez.

If not, you can file a petition for divorce in the court of law under Section 2 (viii) (b) of the Dissolution of Muslim Marriage Act, 1939. The section provides a ground of divorce if your husband associates with women of evil repute or lead an infamous life, considering such an act as mental cruelty.

If your husband has falsely accused you of committing adultery and doesn’t retract his words, it becomes a ground for you to divorce him under the concept of Lian.

Christian Law

  •  Divorce

Divorce for Christians in India is regulated by The Divorce Act, 1869. Section 10(1)(i) of the act reads:

Any marriage solemnized, whether before or after the commencement of the Indian Divorce (Amendment) Act, 2001, may, on a petition presented to the District Court either by the husband or the wife, be dissolved on the ground that since the solemnization of the marriage, the respondent has committed adultery.”

Under Section 11 of the Act, it is a requisite that the adulterer must be impleaded as a co-respondent in the suit, unless

  1. The respondent is leading the life of a prostitute and the petitioner does not know with whom the adultery has been committed.
  2. The petitioner is not aware of the name of the adulterer though efforts have been made.
  3. The adulterer is dead.
  • Judicial Separation

You can alternatively file a petition of a judicial separation under Section 22 of the Divorce Act, on the ground of adultery committed by your spouse.

Parsi Law

  • Divorce

The statutory provisions for marriage and divorce of Parsis have been provided for by the Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936.

As per Section 32(d) of the Act, adultery is a ground for divorce, if a suit for divorce is filed within a period of two years after the plaintiff came to know of the fact.

  • Judicial Separation

Section 34(d) of the Act makes all the grounds for divorce, grounds for judicial separation as well. Therefore, adultery is a ground for judicial separation under the Parsi Law.

The Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973 (CrPC)

It is worth noting the provisions of the CrPC regarding a cheating on spouse. These are:

  • A wife is not entitled to get maintenance from the husband if she lives in adultery. If an order has been passed to pay maintenance and later a proof is presented of her living in adultery, such order shall be cancelled by the magistrate. Note that living in adultery is different than merely committing adultery once.
  • If a person commits house-breaking by day with the intent to commit adultery, and commits, in the house so entered, adultery with your wife, he may be separately charged with, and convicted of, offences under sections 454 and 497 of the Indian Penal Code.
  • If a person entices your wife away from you, with an intent to commit adultery with her and then commits adultery with her, he may be separately charged with, and convicted of, offences under sections 498 and 497 of the Indian Penal Code.

Does cheating on spouse amounts cruelty?  

Supreme Court of India in K.V. Prakash Babu vs State Of Karnataka (2016) cited the case Pinakin Mahipatray Rawal v. State of Gujarat, which will clear the picture.

The court was of the opinion that “the marital relationship means the one legally binding and one partner has a martial interest of one to another. The extra marital relationship is no where defined. Court further held that under section 498A, mere facts that the husband has developed some intimacy with another woman, during the subsistence of marriage and failed to discharge its martial obligation, as such would not amount to Cruelty, but it must of a nature that drives a women to commit suicide to fall under Section 498A. Mental cruelty would vary from person to person. The court also ruled that Section 306 refers to abetment of suicide which says that If any person commits suicide, whoever abets the commission of such suicide shall be punished with imprisonment which may extend to 10 years. The action of committing suicide is also on account of mental disturbance caused by mental and physical. To constitute this offence, first the suicide need to be established which shall be abetted by another and the prosecution must establish the case beyond reasonable doubt. But for alleged extra marital relationship which if proved could be illegal and immoral and nothing under is brought out by the prosecution to show that the accused has provoked, incited or induced the wife to commit the suicide”.


According a survey conducted by, a dating site for married individuals, that the cheating on spouse is not a taboo anymore. The survey was conducted by the site among the Indians which shows following:

Situation Figures
Who majorly initiate Man, but usually one third woman
Usually, people of age group age are more into it 34-49 years
How many people prefer it to keep the relationship secret 88%
How many people prefer these as about satiating the urge for physical intimacy than developing a platonic relationship 57%

Thinking about hiring private detective agents -Legality of spying agencies

In marriage when one spouse has doubt about the his/her spouse, they want to know whether their spouse is meeting someone else at what place and address and they want to test the loyalty of their loved ones. So in order to find out the realities they hire a spying agency to spy on their significant other. These agencies claim to provide comprehensive investigation report at an affordable rates. Hiring these agencies are legal but if these crossed the thin grey line between the legality and illegality they become illegal. These agencies work in dark which sometimes amount to violation of right to privacy which is now guaranteed by Article 21 of the Constitution of India as Fundamental right. Phone tapping, spying through use of various technologies etc. may amount to violation of right of privacy. When these agencies cross the thin line between the privacy and open world, here it becomes illegal. Violating the right to privacy may attract the punishment or penalty as the case may be.

There is no law in India which govern these agencies but a new bill is proposed by the Central Legislature which is called Private Detective Agencies (Regulation) Bill, 2007 which seeks to regulate these.


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